all: library changes for swarm-network-rewrite (#16898)

This commit adds all changes needed for the merge of swarm-network-rewrite.
The changes:

- build: increase linter timeout
- contracts/ens: export ensNode
- log: add Output method and enable fractional seconds in format
- metrics: relax test timeout
- p2p: reduced some log levels, updates to simulation packages
- rpc: increased maxClientSubscriptionBuffer to 20000

p2p/protocols/protocol.go

@@ -33,7 +33,9 @@ import (
 	"fmt"
 	"reflect"
 	"sync"
+	"time"
 
+	"github.com/ethereum/go-ethereum/metrics"
 	"github.com/ethereum/go-ethereum/p2p"
 )
 
@@ -217,6 +219,8 @@ func (p *Peer) Drop(err error) {
 // this low level call will be wrapped by libraries providing routed or broadcast sends
 // but often just used to forward and push messages to directly connected peers
 func (p *Peer) Send(msg interface{}) error {
+	defer metrics.GetOrRegisterResettingTimer("peer.send_t", nil).UpdateSince(time.Now())
+	metrics.GetOrRegisterCounter("peer.send", nil).Inc(1)
 	code, found := p.spec.GetCode(msg)
 	if !found {
 		return errorf(ErrInvalidMsgType, "%v", code)