swarm: snapshot load improvement (#18220)

* swarm/network: Hive - do not notify peer if discovery is disabled

* p2p/simulations: validate all connections on loading a snapshot

* p2p/simulations: track all connections in on snapshot loading

* p2p/simulations: add snapshotLoadTimeout variable

* p2p/simulations: ignore control events in snapshot load

* p2p/simulations: simplify event loop synchronization

* p2p/simulations: return already connected error from Load function

* p2p/simulations: log warning on snapshot loading disconnection

swarm/network/hive.go

@@ -165,8 +165,8 @@ func (h *Hive) Run(p *BzzPeer) error {
 			// otherwise just send depth to new peer
 			dp.NotifyDepth(depth)
 		}
+		NotifyPeer(p.BzzAddr, h.Kademlia)
 	}
-	NotifyPeer(p.BzzAddr, h.Kademlia)
 	defer h.Off(dp)
 	return dp.Run(dp.HandleMsg)
 }