Disable the PubSub vote subscription by default (#13600)

The --rpc-pubsub-enable-vote-subscription flag may be used to enable it.
The current vote subscription is problematic because it emits a
notification for *every* vote, so hundreds a second in a real cluster.
Critically it's also missing information about *who* is voting,
rendering all those notifications practically useless.

Until these two issues can be resolved, the vote subscription is not
much more than a potential DoS vector.

(cherry picked from commit 5d72e52ad0)

Co-authored-by: Michael Vines <mvines@gmail.com>

docs/src/apps/jsonrpc-api.md

@@ -2833,7 +2833,7 @@ Result:
 {"jsonrpc":"2.0","result":true,"id":1}
 ```
 
-### Subscription Websocket
+## Subscription Websocket
 
 After connecting to the RPC PubSub websocket at `ws://<ADDRESS>/`:
 
@@ -3354,7 +3354,11 @@ Result:
 {"jsonrpc": "2.0","result": true,"id": 1}
 ```
 
-### voteSubscribe
+### voteSubscribe - Unstable, disabled by default
+
+**This subscription is unstable and only available if the validator was started
+with the `--rpc-pubsub-enable-vote-subscription` flag.  The format of this
+subscription may change in the future**
 
 Subscribe to receive notification anytime a new vote is observed in gossip.
 These votes are pre-consensus therefore there is no guarantee these votes will