windows: Make solana-test-validator work (#20099)

* windows: Make solana-test-validator work

The important changes to get this going on Windows:

* ledger lock needs to be done on a file instead of the directory
* IPC service needs to use the Windows pipe naming scheme
* always disable the JIT
* file logging not possible yet because we can't redirect stderr,
but this will change once env_logger fixes the pipe output target!

* Integrate review feedback

net-utils/src/lib.rs

@@ -374,7 +374,7 @@ pub fn is_host_port(string: String) -> Result<(), String> {
 
 #[cfg(windows)]
 fn udp_socket(_reuseaddr: bool) -> io::Result<Socket> {
-    let sock = Socket::new(Domain::ipv4(), Type::dgram(), None)?;
+    let sock = Socket::new(Domain::IPV4, Type::DGRAM, None)?;
     Ok(sock)
 }