add plumbing to allow for arbitrary tpu address in gossip (#22703)

* add plumbing to allow for arbitrary tpu address in gossip

* make clippy happy

* Review comments

Co-authored-by: CherryWorm <nico.gruendel@web.de>

replica-node/tests/local_replica.rs

@@ -252,6 +252,7 @@ fn test_replica_bootstrap() {
         &gossip_addr,
         dynamic_port_range,
         bind_address,
+        None,
     );
 
     info!("The peer id: {:?}", &contact_info.id);